FAQs - Our Difference
Sex Toys For Men With A Difference!
Scroll Down to see our main FAQ's below.
But first, we wanted to let you know our 4 core objectives:
- Make the best, most fun sex toys for men in Australia.
- Remove the stigma of owning a male sex toy (eg, not just owning sex toys for partner play).
- Create toys that are not just for fun - but are also Penis Trainers. Your 'gym for down-under'.
- Help to transform sexual health for men (PE, ED, Low Libido, Performance Anxiety, etc).
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Do you sell sex toys - or are these just trainers?
They are BOTH! This is our difference. First and foremost, our products are premium sex toys designed for men, by men.
However, most sex toys for men are pretty average and do not train you to be better in the sack. Our toys have been specifically designed to give you the best of both worlds:
- Premium, fun, powerful sex toys.
- Help you train to become a better lover.
Why do you only sell a few sex toys - not 100's like all the rest?
That is all we have been able to make/collaborate on with so far. We don't sell other brands products.
However it is also a deliberate choice. We do not want to overwhelm our customers with 100's of choices, when most toys can be grouped into 2-3 simple functions/categories.
We have carefully curated options that we stand by, each performing a different function, or helping you train your cock in different ways.
Ideally, you try one from each category so that you can benefit from all. However, you can just select the option(s) that you think will be best for you. Hell, you can always come back for the other options to add to your 'tool-kit'.
How is Alpha Lover different to other sex shops?
The vast majority of other sex shops sell products from 100's of different manufacturers. Most don't curate/make their own toys.
Most of these companies probably don't even test the products they sell to see if they are actually any good or not. They are only interested in selling you gadgets.
Finally, most sex shops are selling sex toys focused only on 'fun'. Alpha Lover toys are designed by men for men: For fun & to train to be better in the sack.
This is what makes Alpha Lover different!
Do you offer training/courses?
No. We believe that everyone knows what to do - it's human instinct. We believe that it's just about training with the right gear (that produce natural sensations, or trigger specific effects) to help you understand your body, build stamina and gain control. That being said, there are some very well known techniques that can aid you in your training.
- See our article on Edging.
- See our article on Kegel exercises.
- See our article on the Squeeze technique.
How long will it take to train?
As long as it takes. The most important thing is that you take the training seriously and mindfully. eg, you should keep track of your progress, and be mindful of the things that you are trying to achieve. Eg, are you looking to last longer, or help get bigger/better erections and quicker. These are very different results.
Honestly, you could see results in a matter of weeks.
But even if it takes a while for you to see results - at least it's fun. It's not like going for a run!
Do you sell pills/medication
No.
If you think you have a physical problem, see your doctor. However, even if you have a physical condition, you should still be training.
Can't I just 'train' on my partner?
Yes and No. But if you are concentrating on training/techniques - what a crap experience for your partner. If you aren't in the moment, your partner will know - and they will learn to hate it!
Training is a solo activity. Learn your body and practice control/stamina on your own. Then bring it to the bedroom like a true alpha lover.
What gear is right for me?
We believe that everyone should have The Stroker. It really is a must-have. This is because there is no mess, no fuss (no lube required) - and is just as easy as your hand. It is also a great device for learning control and for getting better/stronger erections.
The big problem with most other sex toys for men is that they may look cool, but they are a pain in the arse to store, use, clean. They mostly just end up collecting dust, and you revert back to your hand.
Our products are different.
We strongly advise that you pair the Stroker with either The Pumper or The Sucker. The benefit of The Pumper is that you can measure your progress over time with the thrust counter.
Where are your products made?
Inspired by us locally and manufactured in China. However, we also partner with some Australian designers and manufacturers for certain product designs/product parts.
We mostly work with Chinese manufacturers, as this allows us to offer you the most affordable price.
Worried about quality? 99% of all adult toys are manufactured in China, including all of the most well-known women's brands.
We have spent a long time curating and testing our products, and we are sure that you will love them too.
Do you offer free shipping & do you ship outside Australia
Yes. In Australia, we offer free standard shipping. If you spend over $150, you will also get free Express Shipping. See our Shipping page.
Do you offer refunds/returns?
See our Refunds/Warranty page.